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Self Sabotage support groups bring together people with lived experience to talk openly, feel less alone, and learn from one another in real time.

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recovery from recurring sexual abuse

Sat, May 16 | 7:30PM - 8:30PM UTC
I´m a trained sharewell facilitator and may set the group rules. Throughout the meeting, you have to be physically present, for some min. is ok. Those who arrive too late, I cannot repeat the class nor can I answer all questions regarding the material not do I work with a book. Regular attendance is highly recommended. Pls SIGN OUT if you can´t make it, I offer this for free and could use the time for myself too. Personal attacks and junasked judgements are prohibited since I do this free and at my best knowledge, I reserve the right to expell. Those who never sign out on many occassion might be silently removed from the re-attandence list. NO CROSSTALK OR UNASKED ADVICE like 12 steps meetings. This is not a debatte course and safety for all is crucial. This is not a "stell your story talk group´, it´s rather a practical skill training or written exercises on given topics from my further studies. If you don´t want to put in hard work and think talking is enough, this active group isn´t for you. Pls those who said attend to be present and stay in the room during the whole session. The group takes place with 3 people at minimum. This is a practical skills groups with share not a only share your story group. Regular attendence is needed, I read other questions next week and can´t go back for each new comer. If you miss just seldom a class, I can help you catch up though. i´d give weekly a topic to be discussed after I explain it, we stick to the topic and I also do live exercises or give them as homework. Conditions are to be safe from the abuser, and have non-suicidal active thoughts. I can´t take in women in abussive relationships at present, since recovery without exterior safety is impossible and it would give a bad example to those who want to work on themselves.I tend to work as a coach not as a therapist. Key Concentration Areas: Reclaiming the "No" (The Physicality of Boundaries): Moving past the verbal "no" and into the physical energy of a boundary. Exercises on what a "protective stance" feels like in the muscles.Somatic Discernment: Learning to distinguish between "strong chemistry" and a "nervous system alarm." Often, trauma survivors mistake high-cortisol (fear) for high-dopamine (attraction). Healing the Freeze/Fawn Response: Practical ways to take action during the freeze response Chronic Pain & The Shield: Exploring how chronic pain, anxiety disorder, adictions might be linked to the body's attempt to protect itself, and how to create safety without the pain having to do the work.

Upcoming Groups

recovery from recurring sexual abuse
walnut2026

walnut2026

recovery from recurring sexual abuse

somatic healing

Boundary setting
Emotional regulation
Self-sabotage
1/12
Sat, 5/23, 5:30 PM60 min
recovery from recurring sexual abuse
walnut2026

walnut2026

recovery from recurring sexual abuse

somatic healing

Boundary setting
Emotional regulation
Self-sabotage
1/12
Sat, 5/30, 5:30 PM60 min
recovery from recurring sexual abuse
walnut2026

walnut2026

recovery from recurring sexual abuse

somatic healing

Boundary setting
Emotional regulation
Self-sabotage
1/12
Sat, 6/6, 5:30 PM60 min
recovery from recurring sexual abuse
walnut2026

walnut2026

recovery from recurring sexual abuse

somatic healing

Boundary setting
Emotional regulation
Self-sabotage
1/12
Sat, 6/13, 5:30 PM60 min
Topic context

Understanding self-sabotage

Self-sabotage often shows up as procrastination, negative self-talk, or pushing away good opportunities. It’s a frustrating cycle that many people deal with quietly. Peer support offers a safe space to unpack the roots of self-sabotage, like fear or shame, and hear from others who get it. Connecting with peers who have navigated similar patterns helps reduce isolation and fosters compassion for oneself. Together, participants can build insight and strategies that interrupt the cycle, moving toward healthier behaviors and greater self-trust.

Why it helps

How peer support helps with self-sabotage

Peer support helps with self sabotage because growth is easier when it is shared. A group can offer encouragement, accountability, reflection, and practical ideas from people who understand the topic in a real and human way.

Inside the room

What self-sabotage groups often cover

  • Self Sabotage in everyday life and why it feels hard right now
  • Mindset shifts, coping tools, and personal reflection
  • Routines, habits, relationships, and emotional patterns connected to the topic
  • What support, encouragement, and accountability can look like
Good fit for

Who these groups may help

  • People currently working on self sabotage
  • Anyone who wants encouragement, reflection, and practical support
  • People looking for a more human way to grow alongside others
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Frequently asked questions

What are Self Sabotage support groups?

Self Sabotage support groups are live peer conversations where people can share experiences, listen without judgment, and feel less alone around the topic.

How can a Self Sabotage support group help?

People often use self sabotage groups to talk about challenges, hear peer perspectives, and find encouragement that feels grounded in lived experience.

Who might join a Self Sabotage group?

Anyone personally affected by self sabotage who wants connection, understanding, and conversation with peers may find these groups helpful.
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