UC San Diego grad. Voracious reader, storytelling enthusiast, Unemployed UX Designer. ||| Just realized this was a place to open up, so this is an EDIT; I'm a few years out of a relationship that ended when we were engaged. She started testing me instead of talking and would fly in to a rage or bawl at me. Another person took me under their wing under the guise of mentoring me and financially and emotionally abused me for years, chasing me across the country.