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pilar_arsenec
Peer Specialist
Rocket PeerStar Host

Pilar Arsenec

I'm available to do 1 on 1's, please check for my availability. I'm a life coach, ICF ACC, trauma, mental health and recovery coach. I'm a Certified Mental Heath Coach through the American Association of Christian Counsellors. I'm also an internationally, nationally and state certified peer support and peer recovery specialist. I'm a 60 year old woman of Christian faith with church-related hurt, mental health and trauma. I have C-PTSD as I'm a survivor and overcomer of various forms of abuse in my lifetime. I have decades of lived experience in both mental health and SUD. I have over 10 years sobriety. I also identify as neurodivergent. My goal is to help others because I know it was like to be alone and have no support whatsoever.

18 attended•1117 peers supported•89 hosted•154 positive reviews
Member since Dec 2025

Providing Support For

Bipolar disorder
Shame
CPTSD
Boundary setting
Codependency
Narcissism
NPD Abuse
Adult children of narcissistic parents

Credentials
Verified

certified peer specialist
recovery coach
trauma informed coach

Who I Help Best
Verified

People who have trauma from narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse and psychological abuse. I also help people with setting boundaries and co-dependency. People who have addiction issues (all types). Those struggling with bi-polar, depression, OCD, C-PTSD, anxiety and other mental health issues. I have chronic illness and pain. I'm a practicing Christian for 30 years and certified as a Mental Health Coach with the American Association of Christian Counsellors.

What I've Been Through Myself
Verified

I came from a background of severe trauma from childhood abuse into my adult years. I still contend with family members who are abusive narcissists. I have been sober for over 10 years now. I am diagnosed with Bi-polar 1, C-PTSD, severe anxiety and OCD.

What I Hope to Share

I would like to contribute by helping and supporting others. I want to be the person for someone else that I didn't have for myself when I was going through hell.

What Brought Me to ShareWell

I discovered ShareWell in December 2025. I wish I would have found it sooner. It's such a great and unique user friendly platform.

Host Reviews

"Excellent, gentle, kind and compassionate peer support specialist."
kelseap1991
kelseap1991
Healing After Narcissistic Abuse
2 days ago
"Pilar did a great job facilitating the group and helping everyone feel welcome. "
Katness112
Katness112
Trauma Recovery Circle
3 days ago
"Big fan of the host, she was super cool! "
jailenedolloff
jailenedolloff
Trauma Recovery Circle
3 days ago
"This was a welcoming and encouraging group 💛. I appreciate the sharing and attentiveness between peers. Pilar is a calm and appropriately humorous host!"
Angel_Living
Angel_Living
Healing After Narcissistic Abuse
1 week ago
"This is truly a wonderful and healing group. Pilar does an exceptional job of facilitating a safe space for sharing what's on our hearts and making sure everyone feels heard. "
JoAnn42
JoAnn42
Healing After Narcissistic Abuse
2 weeks ago
"Nice job moderating some very challenging moments."
MarcNYLA
MarcNYLA
Trauma Recovery Circle
2 weeks ago
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Hosted Groups

Trauma Recovery Circle
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Trauma Recovery Circle

Healing, Support, Recovery

CPTSD
Emotional regulation
Healing
10/16
Sat, 11/14, 7:00 PM • 60 min
Sanar del Abuso Narcisista
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Sanar del Abuso Narcisista

Sanar del Abuso Narcisista

Emotional abuse
Healing
Recovery
2/16
Sun, 11/15, 4:30 PM • 60 min
Healing After Narcissistic Abuse
pilar_arsenec

pilar_arsenec

Healing After Narcissistic Abuse

Healing and Support

Boundary setting
Gaslighting
Narcissism
7/16
Sun, 11/15, 6:00 PM • 60 min
Trauma Recovery Circle
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pilar_arsenec

Trauma Recovery Circle

Healing, Support, Recovery

CPTSD
Emotional regulation
Healing
1/16
Sat, 11/21, 7:00 PM • 60 min
Sanar del Abuso Narcisista
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Sanar del Abuso Narcisista

Sanar del Abuso Narcisista

Emotional abuse
Healing
Recovery
1/16
Sun, 11/22, 4:30 PM • 60 min
Healing After Narcissistic Abuse
pilar_arsenec

pilar_arsenec

Healing After Narcissistic Abuse

Healing and Support

Boundary setting
Gaslighting
Narcissism
1/16
Sun, 11/22, 6:00 PM • 60 min
Trauma Recovery Circle
pilar_arsenec

pilar_arsenec

Trauma Recovery Circle

Healing, Support, Recovery

CPTSD
Emotional regulation
Healing
1/16
Sat, 11/28, 7:00 PM • 60 min
Sanar del Abuso Narcisista
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Sanar del Abuso Narcisista

Sanar del Abuso Narcisista

Emotional abuse
Healing
Recovery
1/16
Sun, 11/29, 4:30 PM • 60 min
Healing After Narcissistic Abuse
pilar_arsenec

pilar_arsenec

Healing After Narcissistic Abuse

Healing and Support

Boundary setting
Gaslighting
Narcissism
1/16
Sun, 11/29, 6:00 PM • 60 min
Trauma Recovery Circle
pilar_arsenec

pilar_arsenec

Trauma Recovery Circle

Healing, Support, Recovery

CPTSD
Emotional regulation
Healing
1/16
Sat, 12/5, 7:00 PM • 60 min
Sanar del Abuso Narcisista
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Sanar del Abuso Narcisista

Sanar del Abuso Narcisista

Emotional abuse
Healing
Recovery
1/16
Sun, 12/6, 4:30 PM • 60 min
Healing After Narcissistic Abuse
pilar_arsenec

pilar_arsenec

Healing After Narcissistic Abuse

Healing and Support

Boundary setting
Gaslighting
Narcissism
1/16
Sun, 12/6, 6:00 PM • 60 min

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